Forgiveness

The issue of forgiveness has come up a lot lately for the people I work with. And in my experience there’s a huge misconception about forgiveness… We tend to think it’s about letting the other person off the hook. In fact, it’s the opposite. It’s about letting ourselves off the hook. Letting go of that burden […]

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Saying “No”

I’ve practised, and been an advocate, for saying “no” for a good few years now. Not only to bad and mediocre opportunities, but also to some good opportunities. Saying “no” leaves you open and free for the great opportunities life has to offer. But don’t we upset people when we say no? Greg McKeown put it beautifully […]

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A Step Backwards?

Yesterday I spoke about the taboo of free time, and as we move into our own personal sovereignty we realise something else… The world around us, the world of busyness sees a desire for more ‘space’ to be a backward step. “Oh, you’re longing for days when life was easier… you’re trying to be a […]

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The Taboo of Free Time

The world is slowly making itself insane, and it wasn’t until I stepped out of the insanity myself that I understood the size of the problem. We have, somehow, successfully demonised and devalued the concept of ‘free time’. We’ve been led to believe that our worth is linked to how busy we are… how many […]

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Your Biggest Fear

What’s your biggest fear? Is it worrying what people will think? It is losing the security you believe you have? Our greatest gift often lies somewhere within that which we fear most.

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The Watch

A few years ago I bought a new watch. I bought it to replace the old one I had that wasn’t so smart. Then I realised that I didn’t want to get my nice watch scratched or wet when I’m off on adventures so I bought a ‘stunt watch’. It only dawned on me the […]

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“Now” Is The Only Time There Is

How often do we allow the past or the future to affect our thoughts, our feelings and our actions? We fail to realise that both the past and the future are an illusion. We can do nothing in the past, nor in the future. There is only one time we can ever do anything, and […]

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